Women dumping boyfriends, skipping work, and committing to the 4B lifestyle in their droves after election result

In the wake of Donald Trump’s shocking victory in the presidential election, women on TikTok have been sharing their emotional, often dramatic reactions, capturing the collective grief and frustration many feel. As one of the demographics most affected by Trump’s return to power, many have expressed their despair through viral videos, personal reflections, and even humor.

Some women have gone as far as making drastic decisions, like breaking up with their boyfriends or avoiding work altogether, while others simply lament the state of the world. One user shared her regret for ever being hopeful about a Kamala Harris victory, saying, “The way I expected people to vote for an educated woman that was qualified over a literal, evil piece of s**t, that’s my bad.” Another TikToker sarcastically congratulated “agent orange,” a nickname for Trump, and pledged to “purge my followers” in light of the troubling election results.

The reactions ranged from tearful expressions of disbelief to more thoughtful, deep dives into the societal implications of Trump’s win. One user teared up thinking of the impact the results would have on children, particularly little girls and trans kids, as she expressed, “I never thought it would be Trump.” Another user, @hopeyoufindyourdad, garnered millions of views with her emotional explanation of how the election reflected “the hate this world harbors towards women, LGBTQ people, and people of color.”

However, amidst the collective grief, some women found ways to inject humor and empowerment into the situation. One user embraced the “cat lady era,” proudly cuddling her cat and joining the 4B feminist movement, which promotes women refusing to date or marry men. Another user, @hopecavendish, reflected on how Trump’s victory highlighted the hatred men have for women and found clarity in deciding to stop catering to men’s expectations. For some, this grim reality was oddly liberating.

There were also those who provided a more hopeful message, offering solidarity and support for one another. User @teydegennaro, while acknowledging the difficult times ahead, encouraged everyone to “hug your friends,” reminding the community that, even in the face of despair, the support of friends and loved ones is an essential source of strength.

While the mood on TikTok is a mix of heartbreak, reflection, and occasional humor, one thing is clear: the emotional reactions to Trump’s victory are as varied as the women sharing them, but the sense of community and resilience remains a vital part of the conversation.