Golden Bachelorette Joan Vassos reveals why selfishness is the key for finding love later in life

If you’re anything like us, you’re probably loving the journey of Joan Vassos and her charming senior suitors as she searches for lasting love on The Golden Bachelorette, airing every Wednesday on ABC.

After five weeks of heartwarming and sometimes hilarious moments, Joan is set to meet the friends and family of her final four contestants: Chock Chapple, Pascal Ibgui, Jordan Heller, and Guy Gansert, during the much-anticipated hometown dates. This episode, which aired on October 22, could be pivotal in determining which of these gentlemen might become her future fiancé. Each man brings his own unique qualities to the table—though Pascal is known for being a bit high-maintenance!

Throughout her time on the show, Joan has been candid about her desire for a partner who is a good listener, shares her love for sweets, and has a look reminiscent of either Kevin Costner or Rob Lowe. With such specific criteria, viewers are eagerly awaiting the outcome of her dates!

Joan’s “Golden Rules” for Dating

Beyond her preferences, Joan has established some “Golden Rules” for navigating the dating scene later in life. One rule that particularly stands out is her perspective on selfishness. In her exclusive interview with Us Weekly, Joan emphasized the importance of focusing on her own happiness, stating, “Remember that in the end, this is about you, not your children.”

As a mother of four and grandmother of three, Joan had to remind herself that her quest for love should not be influenced by her family’s opinions. “I didn’t want to make it a family discussion because, in the long run, it was my decision,” she reflected on her bold choice to search for love on national television. Thankfully, her family was supportive, especially after they saw her blossoming on the show, exuding confidence and joy.

Joan noted that the perception of older people dating on TV has changed, which is a relief! She pointed out that viewers weren’t just laughing at the idea of older adults finding love, although some moments—like the unforgettable strip tease group date—did spark laughter.

As the competition heats up, fans are left wondering who will ultimately win Joan’s heart: Chock, Pascal, Jordan, or Guy. To find out, make sure to tune in to The Golden Bachelorette every Wednesday. If you miss an episode, don’t worry! New episodes are available for streaming the next day on Hulu or Disney Plus.

With the stakes rising and emotional moments on the horizon, it’s sure to be an exciting journey leading up to the finale. Be sure to mark your calendars—you won’t want to miss a moment of the heartfelt drama!